WHEN IS IT OKAY TO STOP USING CONDOMS?

When is it okay to stop using a condom in relationships? If you have been seeing the same guy/girl for over a year can you stop? Once you establish that you both love each other can you stop then? Do you really know about the person's health or do you care? Have you considered the risks that come with not using one? Do you just say oh well because you trust them? Aids, herpes and babies are not determined by love but by negligence. Who is to blame? If you had learned more at home or in school about your worth or sex education would you make better decisions? People be smart you have to be more careful! The plastic that lies between you and him shouldn't make or break the relationship. We make far too many decisions based on sex alone. Men sometimes determine if they will stay in a relationship because the sex is good or if they will marry a women because she gives great head and vice versa for women. Never once saying lets go to the doctor so you both don't end up dead or sick with the "hot shit " in bed. I know that people are not perfect and we make mistakes. Make better choices and don't let one mistake be your demise.

HUMP DAY WORD OF THE DAY

IMPERVIOUS (im-PUR-vee-uhs)

Impenetrable, not permitting penetration or passage; figuratively, incapable of being influenced, persuaded or affected

The water proof coat is impervious to the rain.

I tried to persuade him for hours but he was impervious to reason.

Here are a few more usage examples:

My reckless 4 year old is impervious to fear
The swat van was impervious to the bullets of the criminals.

THINK... how can you use impervious in a conversation today?

Learn something new!!!

URBAN JUICE JUNKIE

Trayvon Martin Dont Forget

So did everyone forget about Trayvon Martin? Well I didn't and neither should you. Less than six months ago a young man tragically lost his life and this should not be forgotten. Don't sweep his memory under a rug young men are dying everyday for countless and since less reasons this must stop. These young men leave behind moms, dads and even kids who will be left without there loved one. I looked for some kind of news update or even march regarding the topic and came up blank. People let your voice be heard. If someone who you love has lost there life due to violence speak out for justice.

Urban Juice Junkie

Cleveland's own MJtheDJ Interview

The 5th Quarter Mixtape Release September 16, 2012

I recently sat down with one of the hottest new DJs in the city MJTHEDJ. He is taking the Cleveland club scene by storm.  His raw mix talent and crazy energy he is definitely one to watch and follow.  MJ has been DJ’ing since 2010.  MJ grew up in the St. Clair neighborhood and attended local public schools.  During MJ's childhood he was bounced around 16 foster homes. He finally got a family to call his own when he was adopted at 14. He went off to college in Ohio for a short time before transferring to Kentucky where he earned an Associates Degree in Science. While in college he was given the name "Muzikal Jeanius" eventually shortened to “MJ”.  MJ is not only a DJ he is a drummer, writes music, and plays the keyboard and trumpet. While DJing wasn't his first passion it paid the bills.  He has dreams of being a producer.  In less than a year MJTHEDJ has taken the party scene to a whole new level.  I met up with MJTHEDJ at Panini’s on Coventry and I asked him some tough questions about love, life and music.

UJJ: What makes you a great DJ?

MJ:   I have a sick crazy energy I hang off stuff, I dance I give the crowd all of me every time no half stepping.

UJJ: What was your biggest break so far for you?

MJ:  Just recently I was able to be the DJ for Black Cobain who was on tour with Meek Mills. The opportunity put me in position to be asked by Black Cobain to be his DJ. I gained 200 new twitter followers it was dope.

UJJ: What's your age and real name?

MJ: I'm in my 20's and I only tell my name to the people I trust my last name is Booker-Dye

UJJ: Who is your favorite DJ?

MJ: DJ MOBEATZ a real good dude and close friend he has taught me a lot and I have a great respect for him.  As well as DJ Drama being the one who really put DJ's on the map and took the mix tape game to a whole new level.

UJJ: Do you have a special love interest or are you seeing anyone?

MJ: No I am single but I want to have a girl. I will admit I have trust issues when it comes to relationships but I want someone to share my life with. Not just someone who wants to be with me because of the new attention i get someone who likes me for me.

UJJ:  Do you have kids?

MJ: As for kids I want to wait until I'm married I don't just want a "Baby Momma" nothing against those who do since I was adopted its really important for me to take it serious.

UJJ: What club scene do you prefer to work?

MJ: Although, I love the urban club scene I would say downtowns club scene is where I can play the top 40 hits and mix something like Adele & 2Chains songs and the sound is nuts.

UJJ: How does it feel to be nominated as Ohio Hottest New DJ at this years Ohio Hip Hop Awards?

MJ: To be nominated is an honor. I wanted to be up for this award last year but wasn't given a nomination. So the idea that my hard work is paying off and I'm being noticed as the best is amazing.

UJJ: What are some of the big things that we can expect from you in the near future?

MJ: I have my first mix tape being released Sept 16 Titled "The Fifth Quarter" I'm so excited which will be co-hosted by Ted Ginn Jr.  Who also runs my management team Crew Camp Management . Most DJ's don't release a mix tape this early in their career so that makes it that much better. While most new DJ's first mix tape are not this highly anticipated. When I put the word out I got so many entries from local talent wanting to be a part of it. I will be doing real mixing and live scratching on the cd. I just finished the intro last night.

UJJ: How have you been received by your friends and family regarding your career?

MJ: The people who have always supported MJ do still love and support me and everyone else I can't worry about.

MJ has such great energy and a nice smile. When he is not dj’ing he refers to himself as a "dork" or just a normal guy.  MJ is an all around cool guy who is taking his love for music and making it his career.  So make sure you go to Ohio Hip Hop awards and vote for him daily at http://www.ohiohiphopawards.com.  Also look out for the hot new mix tape "The Fifth Quarter" release date September 16, 2012. 

For all access to MJTHEDJ you can follow him on Instagram at @ _mjthedj and twitter @_mjthedj. 

WORDS FOR TODAY

Barack Obama \ba-rack\o-ba-ma\, noun

Meaning: the president, a leader, great power & focus for the people with an unwillingness to quit.

Origin : Barack is an African term meaning blessed also a form of the Hebrew name Baruch. Obama is a name from the Luo ethnic group of southern Kenya.

cacology \ ka-KOL-uh-jee \ , noun;

1.Defectively produced speech; socially unacceptable diction.


Quotes:
As to prose, I don't know Addison's from Johnson's; but I will try to mend my cacology.

(- Lord Byron, The Works and Letters of Lord Byron)

Such cacology drives some people to distraction.
(-- Linton Weeks, "R Grammar Gaffes Ruining the Language? Maybe Not", NPR)

Origin:Cacology comes from the root caco- meaning "bad." This prefix occurs in loanwords from Greek. Similarly the suffix -logy is a combining form used in the names of sciences and bodies of knowledge.
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Democratic Convention

Today is the start if the Democratic Convention and while I'm sure for some the next three days will make no difference for you either way these times are important. Every night there is a keynote speaker who will be speak of the progress, the new changes and the need for the Obama Office to re-elected. Now don't just vote for him because he is black make an educated decision to vote for him based on his views and policies and ideas that appeal to you. The next two months their will be debates, town halls , and interviews good and bad for both parties trying to earn your vote "Pay Attention!" On Thursday the same night the president speaks the VMA's will be on hosted by Kevin Hart this will be on again as a repeat heck you can even record it so don't fall for it. The last time the VMA's was hosted by a black man was by P.Diddy in 2005. We all no Kevin Hart is funny but the Democratic Convention is more important.

Urban Juice Junkie

TRUST YOUR MATE

Often in relationships we don't know when to fall back and just take it easy. We easily push our mates or love interest away by just being to damn insecure. It's okay to want to spend time with them and give them affection but not when it causes tension or irritation from other party. Men you don't have to mark your territory when your with your lady by holding her hand or resting your arm on her chair. Trust if you came with her everyone one saw you relax. While ladies you don't have to turn your nose up at every women who walks bye because you think they all want him take it as a plus you have a man worth looking at. Men don't dish out more than you can take. If you stay out late with no questions asked be okay when your mate stays out late with her girls too. Whats good for one should be good for both. That excuse about you being a man or from the streets is old news let it go. Learn how to trust your mate don't make them not want to be honest or forced to tell a lie because you always have something to say. Every situation should not turn into a fight this could find you frustrated and alone.