Agreeing to be in a Wedding?

If asked to be in a wedding is it okay to say no? Does it matter if they are your relative or if you have been friends for a long time? If your answer is no why do you feel that way? Is it based on how you feel about their mate? The colors you may have to wear? Or can it even break down to be jealousy? If your request is turned down by someone how will that make you feel? All things considered getting married is one of the most important days of ones life. It lets you know who supports and loves you and believes in your union and will share in you happiness.