As a kid you learn to keep your hands to yourself why it is so hard for us to remember that as adults? Often we believe that if you have money that all your problems willgo away. There is certainly three sides to every story; her side, his side and the truth which no one knows but them. At some point you have to step back and weigh all your options.Do I put my hands on him/her and lose my freedom, possibly my career or do I walk away and calm down? The easier route would be to walk away and calm down then come back once you have cooled off. But I guess sometimes you react before you think which is what happened in the Chad Johnson and Evelyn Lozada case alledgedly I would like to think a man with a prominent football career would not risk all that by hitting a women. Clearly he doesn’t realize the influence he plays in the eyes of the people who look at him as a role model, father and mentor to many. How can people support him or cheer him on if he has a temper and can’t control his emotions? Now this doesn’t mean that the women should be able to say and do what she wants with no repercussions but you married her so deal with it. Women have a way of provoking a man to violence or arguing until they snap. Sadly, some women get off on this. There has to be a point when you say this isn’t working we need to breakup or separate. Love is a hard thing that must be worked on daily. The solution to ones problems can’t be solved by hitting, head butting or knocking your significant other around.
What do you think would you take him back?
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