Word of The Day

Extemporaneous

Extemporaneous [ex·tem·po·ra·ne·ous] adj. 1. Unrehearsed. Done or said without advance preparation or thought; impromptu. 2. Prepared in advance but delivered without notes or text: “An extemporaneous speech.

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Dating Your Friends Date

I'm sure at some point most of us have seen a man/women that one of are friends have dated and thought the person was attractive. Maybe even thought you could see yourself with the person instead of with them. Is it really okay to date your friends old dates? How do you determine when this is acceptable? Could you base your desicision on how long they may have talked or dated? If they ever had any sexual interaction? Should you go back to your friend and ask permission? Would this make you mad? Let me know what you think.

Don't just think about it blog about it!!!

UJJ

When You Know Better You Do Better.

Often times men/women find ourselves in relationships that we know we need to let go. We look for reasons to stay when all signs point to the exit. Women often stay with a man for kids, money, shelter and even sex just to feel like a part of something knowing that it would be better to just walk away. Why do we stay? Lack of planning ? Not wanting to grow-up? or fear of being alone? Sometimes the reason is simply facing the facts that the relationship is over. Knowing when to walk away is a skill that not all of us do well. There is a song that goes" You have to know hold then, know when to fold them, know when to walk away" which has so much meaning and truth to it. Make the days you spend with your loved ones count. If its not working have the conversation, put it on the table, and express your feelings. You will feel better later!

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HUMP DAY WORDS OF THE DAY!!!

Histrionic [his·tri·on·ic] adj.

Overly theatrical or dramatic. n. Exaggerated dramatic behavior designed to attract attention. “His histrionic reaction disrupted the meeting.”

Sagacious [sa·ga·cious] adj.

Shrewd; showing keen mental discernment and good judgment. “A sagacious remark.”

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WHEN SHOULD YOU MOVE IN WITH YOUR MATE?

The desire to want to live together in a relationship often comes to soon. Given the current cost of living and the state of the economy people are moving in together faster then expected. But when is truly the right time to move in with your mate? Is there a time limit on how long you should have known the person? If you have children do their ages matter? Does it matter if they are boys or girls? Can you really say you know someone if you have never lived with them? I can say that living with your mate is a true test of what the future holds. Before the bags are packed and the keys are shared set some ground rules. If you are not comfortable with sharing or having boundaries set, then make sure you are ready for the possible outcome. Don't let splitting the bills be your deciding factor.

When Holiday Dinner Is Cooked By The Worse Cook!

So we all know the holidays are fast approaching and let's face it everybody can't cook. We all have the one family member that will cook up a ton of food invite the whole family over to a death sentence (I use death lightly) but you know what I mean. Usually this is the person with the nasty house, foreign smell and a ton of small bugs running around. Now as soon as you decline the invitation you're funny acting or ignorant. But the ignorance started with them asking anyone to come break bread with them and the food and location both suck. I know this is the time of year to enjoy your loved ones and be thankful. So this year we would all be thankful if these people I'm referring to just decided not to cook and went over someone else's house.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT FRIDAY!

Why do you have to "put your two cents in"...but it's only a "penny for your thoughts"? Where's that extra penny going to?

What did cured ham actually have?

If a deaf person has to go to court, is it still called a hearing?

Why do doctors leave the room while you change? They're going to see you naked anyway.